February 2012
2 posts
How Unconfidence Happens
Confidence. It’s a word that most people know and a trait that most people want. Most people will say they have confidence in doing certain things, but unconfidence in other things. The things most people are unconfident about are things they aren’t familiar with. Since they don’t know what to expect, how can they be so sure of themselves? This is reasonable. However,...
Getting What You Want
Everybody has desires. But not everybody can get them. Not getting what we want is what makes most of us unhappy. This leads to us feeling bad about ourselves because sometimes we feel like if we do the work and put in the effort we should get what we want. But even if you put in the work, you won’t always get what you want. This can be very frustrating. It can lower our self-esteem and make...
January 2012
1 post
Emotional Responsibility Key to Healthy...
Have you ever gotten upset at someone and just had to express your feelings to him or her? When most people do this, they’re not just letting the other person know they’re upset. They’re also releasing their emotional tension on them. This emotional tension is the same energy you would use to hit or kick an object to oblivion when you’re upset. When you release this energy on another person, it...
December 2011
1 post
Why Technical Smart Asses are Technically Dumb...
When I saw my friend over the holidays, I couldn’t believe my eyes. He had lost so much weight and looked so different. He was always a heavy guy. But somehow he had managed to shed the pounds.
When I asked him how he did it, he told me it was because of his consistency. Consistently working out and eating healthy. I then told him that he must have developed great self-discipline. He then...